Friday, February 20, 2009

Love, Like, or Crush?

Assalamu'alaikum...

What is "Love"? What is "Like"? What is "Crush"?

Care to share your thoughts?

13 comments:

DeeN said...

Crush is wide,
Like is wider,
Love is the widest...

I guess

aRiff said...

what did you mean by that?

Kema Azeman said...

wat deen means, i tink, is dat crush means i love but i dont love u enuff to walk on water to prove it. hahah. bley plak kan.

crush is tis feelings that u feel as if u r totally in luve wit the subject, bt actually u just fancy her. the feeling is on temporarily; it doesnt stick around very long. It comes n go. eg: me can hv 5 crushes on 5 diff guys in just 1 semester. tp jgn slp langkah, people usually mistaken this for 'love' and start to approach the subject dan bermulalah bibik pcintaan yg sementara itu.

like. its a very universal feeling. u feel it towards ur frens, lecturers, fmili n some other nice people that u randomly met. like is a nice feeling in which u feel at most comfortable whn ur around the persons that u like. n u can always tell that u ONLY LIKE her, instead of madly deeply in luv. its a very friendly feeling, like is. eg: i like dammit becos he is so nice and a very reliable fren.

love is very subjective. its more of a verb i tink, kt kerja. for me, cinta yang agung hanya layak utk Allah. but love doesnt necessarily means cinta. Love is an affection; u care for this person so dearly just like u care for ur famili. eg: i love qiqi becos she means so much to me. if u love an opp gender, u myte love her as a fren or u myte love her as a future wife. its very confusing really but if u serah kepada Allah, u can distinguish wat kind of love u feel towards this person.

hmmm...i hope this helps. i actually pernah bt entry psl ni, it tink it was on my frenster blog. tyme tu mayb we havent develop frenship yet huhu.

cheers! =D

Caracol S. Trampt said...

Tuan kat kampung....
catch up later my friend

aRiff said...

To Kema: ..........(speechless)...wah, ni Love Guru ke? (nothing to do with the movie)....Thanx...Faham, Cikgu!

To Caracol (my non-biological bro): tak tanye pon...hehe...nanti pastikan saye dijemput ngan private jet to ur kenduri tau...hehe...VIP table, jgn lupe...

Kema Azeman said...

ahhh..this is the magic of experience. been so confused for so many tymes yet still standing with a relationship-o-meter constantly hit zero. i wonder if there's sumting wrong wit me? LOL!

btw. for encek caracol....

bilerrrr neh~~~ 1 vip seat for me gak please! ngahahah :p

... said...

oohhh agree wif kema..

aRiff said...

eyh!!...mane bley agree je...kena tulis laa...

taQi said...

okay2...i dun agree with u ariff..hahaha

aRiff said...

mr. Taqi, give ur opinion la...:P

alif zai mim ra said...

in my opinion,

crush: a come-and-go feeling. only temporary and usually a hard-to-get her situation. eg: i have a crush on Faisal Tehrani because he's a good story-teller. :D

like: somewhat feeling that you get once you just got to know him/her whether both of u just met or it happens that both of u hv got along well. u may like ur friends, lecturers or even anyone that u're comfortable to be with. sometimes, a like can be developed to a love.

love: a strong feeling towards someone. a feeling which is hard to be removed. a feeling like u're bound to it. yup, macam kema cakap, it is subjective. u can love ur family, u can love ur friends. not necessarily to love ur other half only. it can be pretty confusing sometimes especially to differentiate the type of love that u have. a love bound because of friendship or because of relationship or both.

erm, all in all, setuju bebenorlah dengan pendapat kema. :P

aRiff said...

To Hawa: kekeke...ni mesti love Kema ni...tu yg memanjang agree ngan Kema...hehe...anyway, nice insights...

alif zai mim ra said...

of course i love Kema.. :"> kan Kema kan? :P